We live in a world that is still full of myths, one of which is the misconception about sex toys. Despite the fact that sex toys have been proven to be very helpful to our sex life and physical health, they are still misunderstood by many unknown people. Today we will be the myth-busters and crush these myths through facts.
Myth #1: Sex toys, as is commonly believed, are only for people who are sexually discordant or don't have a sex life
However the truth is that people who use sex toys, regardless of their sexual experience, incorporate them into their daily routine for masturbation as well as to spice up their sexual activities. Data on vibrator use show that people who are sexually active are more likely to use sex toys than those who are not. About 20 to 30 percent of people have tried a sex toy at least once in their lifetime. Sex toys should not be seen as a crutch for cripples or a cure-all; rather, they can be sexually empowering.
Myth #2: Sex Toys Cause Addiction
A basic fact: addiction implies non-health or even harm. But there is no scientific evidence that I am aware of that proves that sex toys cause addiction. While individuals may become accustomed to using sex toys and even become dependent on them, the concept of "sex toy addiction" is unfounded. Anyone can easily resume normal masturbation or partner sex without the use of sex toys. Those who assert that vibrators are addictive have a misconception: excessive use does not mean addiction.
Myth #3: Sex toys can replace men so women don't need sex with the opposite sex
Sex toys are just an inanimate tool that cannot replace human interaction. They cannot provide services such as breakfast, cuddling or expression of emotions. Using sex toys can be intimidating for some men, often due to societal conditioning that places undue emphasis on their anatomy. Many men experience anxiety about their sexual significance due to these ingrained myths about male sexuality from childhood.
It's crucial to recognize that there are women who may choose not to have a man in their lives, and owning a sex toy does not alter their decision. Sex toys are a personal choice and do not diminish the desire for human connection in various aspects of a relationship.
Myth #4: Men only use sex toys when they're single
The stereotype about men using sex toys is that they are always lewd and unconfident. However, this is not the reality for many men. Sales of male sex toys are now on the rise, with one survey showing that 21% of respondents use sex toys both in relationships and when they are single.
For many men their use of sex toys isn't just to address their libido during their single years. Improving their ability to have sex is also one of their goals, and they use sex toys to understand their threshold to control their ejaculation and improve their ability to have sex during sex.
Myth #5: Adult toys diminish the natural feel of sexual intercourse
Many of us grew up with misconceptions about sex, one being that "natural sex" is limited to a specific type of sexual experience.Consider a drawing created with pencil and paper—does it appear less "natural"? What about a painting done with your own blood instead of traditional paints—does it seem more "natural"? Not necessarily.
However, the perception arises that sex becomes less "natural" when tools and toys are introduced to enhance the experience.In reality, sex toys are as natural as the individuals who use them, providing entertainment not solely because of their technical features but because of the people incorporating them into their intimate experiences.
Myth #6: Sex toys are categorized into excellent and useless, with only two kinds available
Fact about sex toys: Apart from a few sex toys that pose clear dangers, there is no universal distinction between "good" or "bad" sex toys. The evaluation of a sex toy depends entirely on personal preferences. What may be too strong, heavy, or uncomfortable for one person could be excellent for another.
For instance, a dildo that feels sticky and appears unconventional to one person might be the perfect shape, size, and texture for someone else.Most sex toys have the potential to be wonderful for some individuals while not meeting the preferences of others. The key lies in selecting the sex toy that aligns with your personal preferences and desires.
Myth #7: The higher the price of the sex toy, the better the experience of pleasure
A lot of things aren't what you think they are. A $10 vibrator can also give you an intense orgasmic experience, but there are $300 sex toys that can't do that. Comparing the two, a $300 sex toy it is supposed to use better materials, last longer, and have a higher brand premium, but they don't necessarily give you better sensations or more pleasure.
Myth #8: Adult toys are often labeled as kinky
It is true that terms like "kinky" and "normal" are entirely relative, and while they may influence your comfort level in public or your preferences behind closed doors, acknowledging that everyone has their unique preferences can lead to a happier and less stressful sex life.The use of sex toys does not automatically classify someone as "kinky." It does not define the individual or their character; it simply signifies that they prioritize their right to sexual pleasure.This form of self-appreciation deserves respect within any social circle.
Myth #9: Sex toys pose a danger to your overall health
Opponents of sex toy usage often present various reasons claiming they are detrimental to our health. Arguments include the potential for addiction and the suggestion that they may hinder engagement in "real sex." It's important to note that the term "real sex" encompasses any consensual sexual experience.
Contrary to these claims, there is no evidence supporting the idea that sex toys can induce or worsen sexual sensitivity or harm your genitals in any manner. While it's true that improper use of a sex toy could pose minor risks, such as poking yourself in the eye, similar risks exist with everyday items like a can opener. However, no one suggests discarding a can opener due to this occasional risk.
