Do you think safe sex is just about effective contraception and not getting STDs? You wrong, safe sex comes from all aspects. Sexual violence during sex and invasion of privacy at the end of a relationship are not safe sex. Because we are human beings and women with desires, there are reasons to look for a sex life of our own even if we are temporarily single. And while it is important for single women to choose a good condom, it is even more important to choose a safe sex partner and a way of having sex that works for them. Since you can't be 100% safe in a sexual relationship, go ahead and work step by step to minimize the dangers.
Ask the person to use a condom correctly
The dual benefits of condoms in terms of protection against disease and contraception make them the most popular contraceptives among professionals. In addition, about 8% of the population is allergic to latex, so if you fall into this category, it would be a good idea to choose a condom made of polyurethane, which can be bought at a regular drugstore. As for the proper use of condoms, that certainly goes without saying.
Understanding your true sexual needs
Are you one of the more demanding ones when it comes to sex? Don't worry. Understanding your true sexual needs is the second step to getting safe sex.
Choose a sexual partner who is receptive to your point of view
To remind you of one thing, people's sexual concepts are formed over time under the influence of factors such as living environment and educational background, so don't try to change each other's sexual concepts or impose your own sexual concepts on each other.
Finding out if a sexual partner is violent
Here's a simple test that will help you find out if your sexual partner is violent.
Question 1: What does he do when he gets angry? Threats to break things, pound on walls, break objects, etc. are red flags that he lacks self-control.
Question 2: Is he emotionally polarized? Emotional polarization is a reflection of immaturity.
Question 3: Does he come from a violent family? Children who grow up in violent homes also tend to learn to solve problems only with violence.
Question 4: Does he attempt to keep you under his control? For example, governing how you dress, how you live your life, perhaps even to the point where you feel you can't make decisions without him.
Protecting your sexual privacy is a virtue
If you're not so desperate that you have to trade your sexual experiences for money, or if you really have to, protect and cherish your sexual privacy. Of course, if you and your partner are skilled and don't care what the world thinks, that's a different story!
When a one-night stand is unavoidable, try to do the following
- Choosing your best form of birth control is good for you and good for you.
- Just in case, don't tell the person your real identity and contact information, but don't be deliberately deceitful either.
- Again, just in case, try to leave at least one of the other person's contact details
- Let the "one-night stand" really be "just one night", after which it will not be pursued.
- Never brag to your friends about your "one-night stand" or you'll end up finding yourself "famous" in no time.
Safe sex for single women
Masturbation Safety Index: ☆☆☆☆☆
From the point of view of safety alone, masturbation is undoubtedly the highest, with heights unmatched by any other method. With the addition of a greater element of sexual fantasy, the mental aspect is as enjoyable as possible, but there is no communication with the sexual partner at all. People can't live without communication, let alone in the great matter of sex.
Safety index of regular sex partner: ☆☆☆☆
Although it is not easy for a single woman to find a regular sexual partner, which can lead to all kinds of trouble, but in terms of safety, a relatively fixed sexual partner will still make the safety factor increased. Unfortunately, once a sexual partner is fixed, emotional problems follow, if your single status can accept the change is not bad, but if the other party is a family or not suitable for marriage will be more painful. Communication that can lead to emotional trouble. Passion also tends to fade as time stretches on.
Virtual Sex Safety Index: ☆☆☆☆
Because single women care about reputation, so this kind of private sex mode quickly popular, but the safety index is not as high as imagined, for example, in the phone sex, the other side of the malicious recordings; or video sex by the other side of the recordings, spread to the Internet, then you can be "overnight fame".
Super Fantasy Safety Index: ☆☆☆☆
The super sexual fantasy described here is an ideal mode of sex that can be tried by those who are interested. Since it relies entirely on sexual fantasies and drives physical pleasure by virtue of mental orgasm, it can be more difficult to operate, especially for women.