Human sex and love are not vulgar character and behavior, not trivial, noble and important. With the improvement of sex education and the change of concepts, sex toys are also gradually throwing their weight around in the public eye. According to the survey, the sex life between husband and wife couples using sex toys is of higher quality and better emotional intimacy. So using a vibrator with your partner is a great idea. If you don't know how to realize this idea, keep reading for more.
Propose topics to your partner
Bringing up the idea of using toys to your partner can be a bit intimidating, especially if it's a new topic in your relationship.
To start a conversation, it pays to maintain a positive and curious tone. For example
"I love exploring new things with you in bed. Have you considered using toys together? I've heard it can add an exciting dimension to our intimacy and pleasure. What do you have in mind?
You may be hesitant to discuss this idea with your partner, fearing that it will imply that you're not satisfied with your current sexual experience. However, reframing it as an exploration of something new and exciting to enhance your mutual pleasure can make it less daunting. If you're having a hard time talking about it, that's okay, check out this guide from us, "A Guide to Introducing Sex Toys to Your Partner."
Choosing Toys
For toys there are two options in the general category, solo vibrators and couple vibrators. There are a variety of different vibrators in our mall to meet your needs. Here are two of my favorites.
Magnetic Rose AV Pleasure Wand
Everyone needs a wand, it's the classic toy that never goes out of style. Made from skin-friendly silicone and durable ABS, this erotic wand is both soft and reliable for an unrivaled experience. It's available in 20 modes to meet your needs at every stage. And it's a breeze to clean, ensuring your safety as you explore new worlds of pleasure.
Rose Butterfly Vibrator
This is a panty vibrator is designed for couples As the name suggests, a panty vibrator is a vibrator that is held in place with panties. You can also pair it with your own erotic lace panties. The vibration patterns and intensity are usually controlled by a remote control, meaning one partner can wear the device and the other can control the vibrations. If you are particularly daring, you can do this while you are out and about. When you get home, you'll rip off each other's clothes.
It's time for playtime
Finding each other's sweet spot
Discovering how to use a vibrator with your partner involves experimentation. Our erogenous zones react uniquely to stimulation, meaning what excites one person might not have the same effect on someone else. This is where a vibrator can be incredibly helpful.
Take the opportunity to explore each other's bodies by gently applying vibration in circular motions to various areas. Try places like the neck, nipples, inner thighs, behind the ears, knees, testicles, shaft, perineum, and even unexpected spots like the armpits, scalp, and hands. Remember, the ultimate goal doesn’t necessarily have to be reaching orgasm; using a vibrator with a partner can be an enjoyable addition to your foreplay repertoire.
Alternate between mouth and vibrator
The most important thing about sex is sensation, so turn your partner on by alternating your mouth and vibrator to give them different sensations. So once you have found the part of your partner's body that turns them on the most, alternate the vibrator with the temperature of your mouth and tongue for an extra sensual experience.
You can also use your mouth and the vibrator at the same time. For example when you are giving him oral sex, gently press the vibrator against his scrotum to give him extra pleasure.
Don't skip the lubricant
Lubrication isn’t only for penetration; it also heightens the sensations of using a vibrator. Consider it as enhancing an already good experience. However, it's crucial to choose the appropriate lube: Silicone-based lubes may deteriorate silicone vibrators, so opt for a water-based option. Begin with a small amount and feel free to reapply as needed!
Bottom line
Sexuality is highly individual, requiring time to explore and understand your own preferences. Embrace experimentation and be open to trying new things; you might discover a newfound sweet spot when exploring with your partner.
