Touching yourself is not only about pleasure, but also about power. Today we are going to talk about a timeless topic: How to Properly Finger Yourself. Most people have masturbated, especially men. To be honest, it is not some embarrassing teenage experiment. I have always thought that it is a confident and conscious self-love behavior that can change your sexual experience, whether alone or with a partner. You can learn about your body, control your desires, and explore your own private map of senses through Finger Yourself, of course, all of this is based on the premise that you do it correctly.
How to Finger Yourself as a Girl
Girls who have no fingering experience are always keen to search the Internet for how to finger themselves for the first time. Now, here is a guide to fingering yourself to orgasm.
Get your fingers ready
First of all, I must remind you that you are about to put your fingers directly into contact with your clitoris and vagina. Therefore, it is very important to make sure your fingers are clean. I don't want anyone to get a yeast infection or something like that, and health comes first. Wash your fingers thoroughly with soap, especially the dirt between your nails, which is where bacteria like to stay. Also, trim and file your nails beforehand to prevent any accidents. I also usually recommend taking a warm shower or bath, which not only keeps your body clean but also allows you to relax and adjust your mood.
Aroused, comfortable and no pressure
Before you get your fingers ready to go, you need to make sure you're in the mood. As for arousal, think about what gets you excited and gets your heart racing. Maybe it's an erotic story, a pornographic movie, or your wildest sexual fantasies. In short, find your favorite and immerse yourself in it. In addition, putting yourself in a comfortable environment can greatly enhance your self-fingering experience. Try dimming the lights, playing some seductive music, or changing to a soft and comfortable set of bedding. The last piece of advice in the preparation stage is not to start with a goal. Most people overemphasize ejaculation and orgasm as the signs of a "successful" sexual experience. If you set this as a goal, it means that you are under pressure, which I don't think is a good start.
Use lube
Lube is a game changer, especially for women with dry vaginal discharge. It enhances your experience, making every touch between your fingers and the clitoris and vagina smoother, more comfortable and stimulating. Tip: Warm it up a little before applying for a better feel. If you feel a little dry, keep applying it to keep the pleasure going!
Find the best position to finger yourself
If you are new to fingering, the best position for fingering is to lean back against the couch or headboard and lower your hands from your breasts to your upper abdomen until you can feel just outside your vaginal opening, just above your clitoris. This way your hands can easily reach all the sensitive areas, whether it is your nipples or your vagina, at any time.
If you get tired of this regular pose, you can try another great position to finger yourself. Put your hand down your lower back, over your anus and then into your vagina. In this position, you can lie on your side or kneel.
Tease yourself with fingering
Caress your clitoris and rub your labia. The labia are less sensitive than the clitoris, so start with them first and work your way up. Gently rub your labia with one or two fingers. Most women will find that if they are already aroused, they will naturally start to get wet when you rub their labia. If they are still dry, use lubricant. Slowly move your fingers to the clitoris, gently grinding and applying a little pressure. You will feel intense pleasure.
Fingering Your G-Spot. Next, when your vagina is moist enough, try inserting your middle finger into your vagina and moving it back and forth. Sometimes you will touch a place that makes you feel extremely comfortable, which is probably your G-spot. Its exact location is on the front wall of the vagina, that is, on the side close to the belly button, about 3 to 5 cm away from the vaginal opening. You can press your finger upwards towards your belly button, and once you reach the right place, you will find that you have turned on the switch of pleasure.
Introduce a second finger. If you want to go a step further and experience a stronger sensation, introduce a second finger. The feeling of inserting two fingers is completely different. Slowly insert the middle and index fingers into the vagina. Do not start pumping right away, feel it first, and if it feels good, you can aim for the G-spot again and gently press the upper part of the vagina. Some women may experience the feeling of squirting for a short time.
Try pressure pressing technique. This technique is especially effective if you're one of those people who has trouble orgasming vaginally. The reason you can't orgasm is that you can't apply enough pressure to your G-spot from the inside. Since you can't reach it from the inside, try external pressure. Simply touch your G-spot with your fingers as you normally would, then place your other hand on your pubic bone and apply pressure and slowly push down. You'll find that the external pressure on your G-spot creates more friction and pressure with your fingers from the inside, making it easier to orgasm.
Double stimulation fingering. For women who are looking for high-intensity stimulation, you can try rubbing your clitoris while stimulating the G-spot. You can insert one or two fingers into your vagina to rub the G-spot, while placing your thumb on the clitoris. This way you can stimulate these two sensitive points at the same time, and I guarantee that this will definitely bring unprecedented pleasure.
