You don't always need a partner to explore sex. In fact, when you're alone, you're freer to explore your body and desires. There's no rush or pressure to perform when you're having sex with yourself. You can learn what turns you on and what turns you off by feeling your emotions, and you can even find pleasure techniques that work just for your body. It's a beautiful and relaxing process. Here are 10 practical tips for how to have sex with yourself.
Create a Sexy Vibe
Exploring your sexuality alone requires a good atmosphere. Just like some people prefer to date in dim lighting. Although solo sex is not stressful, it is more conducive to arousing desire in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, and you may feel better. How to set the atmosphere? You only need to do things that make you feel comfortable, such as lighting a scented candle you like, changing to soft and comfortable bedding, playing some sexy music, and dimming the lights in the bedroom.
Masturbation
You have to learn to self-pleasure. Masturbation may have more benefits than you think. Having sex alone is not only for pleasure. Studies have shown that masturbation can effectively improve sleep quality, relieve our stress and anxiety, and improve our mood. Whether men or women, these are very important to us. However, men seem to have a better talent for masturbation. The vast majority of men have had many masturbation experiences in their lives. Women seem to need more guidance. You can try to stimulate some sexually sensitive areas on your body to excite yourself, such as touching your breasts and genital area, and feel the pleasure brought by these stimulations by applying different pressures. For some experienced women, masturbation is a good way to get off!
Sex with Sex Toys
Now that you've experienced the sensation of masturbation, you can take it a step further and start having sex by yourself with a sex toy. Using sex toys to masturbate is a fun way to explore your sexual desires on your own, and some sex toys can help you get more intense orgasms and get you there faster. There's nothing to be ashamed of with sex toys, it's a safe and healthy approach. There are a wide variety of sex toys on the market for both men and women, from basics like Fleshlights, dildos, butt plugs to feature-rich vibrators and smart toys. These products can help reduce potential injuries that can occur during real sex and provide you with different, unrepeatable sensations, so why not explore them?
Watching or Reading Pornography
Porn movies and erotic stories are a great way to learn how to have sex alone and discover what really turns you on. Especially try some works like soft porn, which are different from hardcore porn, and their performance and description are more delicate and passionate. You can let yourself explore new feelings under some controlled external stimulation, instead of filling your mind with real sexual behaviors, including oral sex, intercourse, body fluids and other details.
This kind of pornography may not have a strong visual impact, but it can still enhance the excitement and pleasure during sex. In addition, this description can make it easier for you to get into the plot, broaden your sexual boundaries, and let you understand your sexual preferences and sexual fantasies more clearly. It is a good way to promote sexual arousal by watching pornography.
Try Edging
Edging is called orgasm control, which means long-term sexual stimulation without orgasm. The specific method is to continuously stimulate your clitoris or clitoral and any sensitive areas that can make you orgasm, and stop the stimulation when you are about to reach orgasm, that is, repeatedly teasing on the edge of orgasm without orgasming directly. The purpose of this practice is to let you experience the most wonderful orgasm in your life that is more powerful than a direct orgasm. Every controlled orgasmic impulse will burst out with the strongest pleasure at the last second. It has to be said that edging is one of the best ways to enjoy private time alone.
Solo Play with Lube
Never underestimate the power of a good lubricant. Lubricants are one of the most effective ways to enhance your sexual experience, whether you're using them during intercourse or masturbating. Try different lubricants to find the one that works best for you. For most people, water-based lubricants are ideal for daily use and are compatible with a variety of silicone sex toys. Silicone- and oil-based lubricants, on the other hand, offer a longer-lasting, silky lubrication for longer, more intense masturbation. If you don't like the greasy feeling, water- and silicone-based lubricants should be your first choice.
Try Something New
Don't always masturbate lying on your back in bed. Repeating the same routine all the time will reduce your experience. Why not try other new positions to find new feelings? Last time you masturbated in bed, this time you can try on the sofa, on the dining table chair; last time you masturbated in the bedroom, this time why not try masturbating in the bathroom, living room, terrace, or even outdoors? Use your imagination to find something new for yourself. Sometimes different techniques can also bring new stimulation, such as trying to rub with a pillow, trying different pressure angles, speeds and positions.
Sexual Fantasy
Sexual fantasies can help you have better sex with yourself. Our imagination can break through all taboos and limitations, and anything that excites you can become the cornerstone of your pleasure. Whether you imagine passionate role-playing, taboo scenes, or a completely new environment, fantasy can awaken passion. When you have sex alone, immersing yourself in fantasy may have unexpected and novel experiences.
