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How to Safely and Comfortably Push the Boundaries of Your Sex Toys

There is a very wide variety of sex toys out there, and their material, size and function can make a very big difference to your experience, so if you enjoy using sex toys, this guide will give you some practical advice that will teach you how to use sex toys in the right way. The advice also applies to other insertion toys such as anal plugs and prostate stimulators.

Step 1: Assess Your Current Limits

To choose the best sex toy for you, you need to know understand where the limits of what you can handle are. If you like to use dildos and you want to try a larger size, but you don't understand the maximum size you can handle. You can try using your fingers to check the maximum width you can handle, start with one finger, it is generally recommended to choose a dildo that is 2-3 fingers wide.

Step 2: Selecting Your Next Sex Toy

If you want to adjust the size of your sex toy of choice, it's best to take your time and consider adding a quarter or three-quarter of an inch to the largest size you currently find comfortable.

Hardness is a factor to consider when you want to choose a larger sex toy. Consider the material of the toy you are currently using and whether you are interested in that material. Dildos come in a variety of materials, such as dual-density silicone dildos (which are soft on the inside and hard on the outside) and hard glass dildos or silicone dildos. Choosing a dildo material that suits your needs can make a big difference to how you feel.

In addition, dildos often come in a number of textured styles, which can detract from your experience when using them, and while these dildos can provide extra stimulation, they are not suitable for everyone.

Woman playing with a sex toy in her hand

Step 3: Trying Out Your New Toy

Imagine the moment your new toy arrives at your house, after cleaning it thoroughly please follow these steps to fully utilize your sex toy.

Apply plenty of lube: lubricant will help you have a silkier masturbation experience, and when exploring areas outside of your comfort zone, lubricant will help you avoid pain and make penetration easier. A high-quality water-based lubricant or an oil-based lubricant is your best bet when exploring your body.

Relax your body: It's important to warm up when using larger sex toys by slowly transitioning from smaller toys and gradually increasing the size of your sex toy once your vagina or anus is fully dilated.

Stop if you feel pain: This is a key tip, if you feel pain when using a larger sex toy, don't force yourself to endure the pain, it may be because your body has not warmed up sufficiently or you are not fully comfortable with the larger sex toy, this principle will keep you safe.

Finding the Perfect Fit

I have always enjoyed pushing my boundaries when it comes to exploring my sexual fetishes by experimenting with sex toys. I have experimented with sex toys made of various materials and even oversized sex toys. But don't blindly go for oversized sex toys because it might not be right for you. As long as the sex toy is comfortable and pleasurable for you, it is the right one for you. Remember, listen to your inner voice and enjoy every moment of pleasure.

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